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24 Aug 2007

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Thing is they will ask him for money secretly or make him do something for them. He then comes to me and makes it like it's his idea. EG; his mom don't hav a house. The sis suggested to him that they will ask one of their cousing to get ahoumeloan on his name & that my hubby can pay the cousin the loan payment per month without my knowledge that she will also contribute without her hubby knowing. The mom had in the 1st place cried to sthe sis that she needs a house and that she must talk 2 the bro (my hubby). He will then come to me and say" i have always wanted to build a house for my mom< i must work hard so that I can get her a house, Makes it sound like a humaritatian case to me to feel sorry and say yes. so everytime the spaeak to him, i wonder what they are conspiring abt
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Sounds like they're coming up with scmes that are far too complex and underhand. So he must pay for a home loan for a home that is not his own and never will be, and will actually be in the name of his cousin rather thasn his mother ? That means he would ACTUALLY be buying the home for the cousin. And why keep it all secret from the mom ? Why can't the larger family get together and discuss how they might ALL contribute to a house for the mom, and in the mom's name, rather than one that would end up belonging to someone else
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