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22 Nov 2005

A Bitter Goodbye ???
Email to my ex:

I am at a point where I have to say my final goodbyes to you, but with a few wishes for you and the girls.

For the girls, my wish is that they grow up to be the happiest, most loving, caring, understanding, considerate, peaceful souls in the world. I love them to bits, and miss them more than you’ll ever know, and I just wish everything of the absolute best in the whole universe for them.

For you I wish different things. I am battling to forgive you for a few things you have done, and a few things you are still doing, which you have refused to see or acknowledge, refused to apologize for, and refused to make any effort to repair.

I can ask God to forgive you, as in “Forgive her Lord for she knows not what she’s done”, but for the hurt that I have experienced and still am experiencing, despite the fact that I still really love you, I cannot forgive you, and so wish differently for you.

Until you one day realize what you’ve done, and what you are doing,
from the bottom of my heart
I wish that you NEVER find happiness in life, ever,
I wish that you NEVER find peace in your life, ever,
and I wish that you NEVER find love again, ever.

As God is my witness, these are my wishes, until I pray one day you do realize what you’ve done and still doing, and you make an effort to repair this.

Do not reply, as I have set my server to block any emails from you. Do not sms either, as you know me, I delete things I do not want to read.

I pray God forgives you and gives you guidance, and the ability to see what this is all about. That is my prayer.

Goodbye.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

I suppose my main question is --- did writing this make yopu fel better, give you some sense of peace ? Sometimes it is very well worthwhil;e to write such letters, though probably best without actually sending them ( often, the person they're aimed at, if they deserve it, don't have the capacity to understand it properly ).
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