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02 Dec 2005

Advice please?
My boyfriend of over a year will on the odd occasion, perhaps once in two months, have a drink after work and sms me "sorry, I am late" and he'll be half an hour late.

It happened on Monday nite but last nite he sms'd just after 5 and came home at 10.30 with no explanation or anything. I didn't greet him and he didn't greet me. This morning he made me coffee and opened the garage door as usual and I left for work.

I don't know how to handle this. Surely he's at fault an must make the effort to explain ?

The two friends he has drinks with are the same two he use to go to stripclubs and prostitute's when he was stil single.

I'm so upset. We don't have this type of problem ever before. I don't feel like dragging it out of him or anything surely he must explain ?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Well, surely he OUGHT to explain, and the fact that he seems reluctant to do so is troubling for you. Simply talk calmly to him about it, and I agree with Buzz, he owes you an apology and an explanation --- what he did was bad manners and inconsiderate. Your own suggestion about going out tonight wouldn't be a good idea --- if he could understand what it feels like, he wouldnt have done it in the first place. If he cared that much, there wouldn't be a problem.
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