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30 Mar 2007

Am I being attracted to the wrong guys?

Can somebody out there advice me on this one.

I am going out with this guy for 3 months now. he recently told me that his one night stand girlfriend is pregnant, of which i don't believe it was a one night stand, with reasons of course.

On the other hand my ex want us to get back together. We have a child (3 years) together I still love him, but I don't think it will be the right thing to get back together.

Am I choosing the wrong guys or am i attracted to the wrong guys. What is it with me??
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01 Jan 0001

He certainly doesn't sound like the Right kind of man for any sensible woman to have a relationship with. And if the pair of them took no precautions, whether on a one-night-stand or a 101 night stand, they're foolish and you won't have lost anything significant if you move on from here. If you have doubts about the wisdom of getting back together with your ex, even if you can't exactly say what these doubts are, its probably wisest to trust your instincts and not get back together. If you feel there is some genuine potential for the two of you working something out ( you and your ex ) why not get into some sessions of relationship / couples counselling before deciding whether or not to get back together ?
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