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21 Apr 2006

Am I the only one re:cheating?
Hi all,

Geez, I have read so many posts on cheating - and what constitutesas cheating.

I don't consider myself in the least old fashioned or uptight, but if you kiss another person then it is cheating - oral sex aside!! If you are verbally sexual with someone other than your partner than it is cheating.

If you are eyeing up every Tom, Dick and Harry then it is disrespectful. If you are flirting outright with someone else, than it is also disrespectful and can lead to cheating.

... all of this is merely my oppinion, but really starting to question if my beliefs are outdated and unrealistic?
... What are the chances of me finding someone that is of a simlar school of thought to me in a world that seems obsessed with infidelity?

AAAAAAAAAAAAAaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrrrggggggggggghhh!!!!!
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cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

,,,,, I agree with kate and Tnink about it, IF the criterion relates to one's behaviour towards another person. Thus drinking, swearing etc, as it is not part of a relationship, may be problems, but not cheating
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