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14 Jul 2008

am I wrong to be upset
My ex husband and I have been together for 6 months now, divorced 2 years ago after 18 years of marriage.
All went well untill I discovered that he spends 24 hours a day sending sms`s to 2 females which he had affairs with during our time apart.. He tells them lies, like he left me again since it didnt work out, they insist there is nothing between them,,But is it really more than 200 sms to them a day....????
I feel cheated...I know he enjoys text sms, I know it is not platonic...I gave up a lot to give him another chance...
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

I wonder how you happened to find out about this. Sounds like he really doesn't know WHAT he wants. 200 SMS a day sounds like harrassment or stalking, rather than any ordinary affair --- is he well ? And what sort of job does he have that allowes him the time to send so many silly SMS ? Sounds also as though its sad that you gave up anything to give him a second chance, and as though he he more than used up his second chance, and his 3rd.
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