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29 Jan 2004

Awaitng sentence for no crime
Hi Doc & Readers
I am to be sentenced at 11hoo today. It is now 09h00. My hands are sweating and shaking, my knees are weak and I have a lump in my throat that I cannot swallow. I could not sleep last night and still have a knot in my stoumach.
Everyone at work is ignoring me at this moment -- don't blame them - what can they say? I guess it's tough on them too.

My Black friend has spotted my previous posting on your forum and has made contact with me. What a blessing.
I copy and paste his message as follows:-
"Hope you're better today.
I just read the message board in Health24.
I am totally shocked.
I am confident that this case will be thrown out during the internal discplinary process.
But that such hatred, envy and evil reside in one person is beyond me.
I know this must be very stressful for you at this time.
You may have to climb this mountain and it may be very rocky but hold on and you will survive.
Let me know how things progress".

Doc, I don't have a question. I have a need to talk to someone and that's all I'm doing right now.
I will keep you informed of how things progress.
I feel a little incoherent at the moment.
Till later then.
Joe
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Joe --- dont hesitate, contact the CCMA, and get a good lawyer on your side, and explore suing the *** out of them to ensure that they both treat you right, and that they never dare do it to anyone else, ever again.
But for God's sake, while you're welcome here to seek emotioanl support, don't rely on us for legal answers to legal questions. See a lawyer as soon as possible and don't dither about that. You MUST have a lawyer to represent you if you make an appeal, and to advise on which option to choose. Good luck with the CCMA option and here's to your winning that case.
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