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22 Jun 2011

Baby I love you but we have to end this
He ended our relationship and told me he thinks he does not know what he wants because he is getting all the good treated any man will wish for.
He told me he rather end this before he hurts me. He thinks he is not meant to have a relationship. I swallowed my pride and begged him not to end this of which he changed his mind. I am not over this I am not over what happened I am really scared. I love him. What was his motives. I will me on this site to read your comments and answer your questions
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Sounds like he has hurt you so as not to hurt you ? I don't understand the idea of anyone being "not meant to have a relationship". Nobody can tell you his motives but he, and maybe he doesn't yet understand himself. It would be wise to see a couples counsellor together and enable you each to understand yourselves and each other, far better than you apparently do thus far. This is not aas a form of superglue to bind you two together, but to enable you to make a wiser and better informed decision
If someone needs to be begged to stay, they are not worth having to stay.
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