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05 Aug 2007

Being harassed by an anoymous caller
It's been 5 months now - I get up to 50 anonymous calls on my cell phone during the day and nite. My parents get just as much on their business lines. I cannot cope I feel so suffocated. This mad idiot says he saw me somewhere and I cast a spell on him. I've been to the police, called vodacom and telkom . The police aren't bothered and vodacom and telkom don't care. Sumtimes I speak to him to see if I'll recognise his voice - he wants to meet me and I just swear him in the hope he'll stop. I cannot sleep at night. This is totally destroying me. I run my business from home and he knows where I stay. I'm losing my mind, getting depressed, paranoid, scared! I wanted to trap him into meeting me and get the cops involved but I don't have the confidence to do it - I'm too scared even though I have the backing of family. This guy really sounds mentally ill. He's mentioned following me around the mall. Please Help me...I can't take this anymore.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

One's first thought is that you can change your phone number. But this sounds more like stalking ---I thought stalking was a criminal offense --- you need good legal advice. Maybe a lawyer's letter remining the phone companies and the police of their responsibilities and their legal liability if anything happened to you, might wake them up. Can you get itemized billing to get his phone number ? WOuld a court be interested to give you an interdict against him, which might require the phone company to reveal his identity and address ?
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