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17 Sep 2009

bf driking too much?
how much is too much?i feel my bf is drinking too much.he want to drink every weekend.and not just 6 or less he would buy 24 or more.the whole weekend.he is 23.his weekend is incomplete without booze.and he never gets drunk.even during the week he would do it.though i asked him a lot of times to reduce but he wont listern.even last night he went to drink after work.i could smell him,i really hate this.and i hate sounding like his mother telling him what to do and what not.hes going to start thinking i want to control him.i dont want a man who drinks all the time.i tell him this mite be cool now but it will affect him in the future.please advise.i dont know if i am right or wrong.what can i do to make him understand.its getting into me because its like he dont want to listern to me.i hate that. and i want wat is best for him

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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

You can't measure "too much" in simple millilitres or glasses. Look more at the pattern of drinking and behaviour. If he can't imagine or acept a weekend without drinking large amounts, he has a drinking problem. If he regularly drinks enough to cause problems --- no time or hangover-free time to do ordinary chores and other pleasures of life ; time off work or neglect of other social duties --- , he has a drinking problem.
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