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25 Jul 2005

b/f vibes
my b/f gets 'vibes' that I have expectations from him. I said to him that I dont expect anything and he said he knows, but still gets these vibes!!! Is it me or him that has the problem here? I dont want to get married or have children, so I am not pressurising for anything. I am happy to be with him, just for being with him! Should I leave?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

If he feels "vibes yopu aren't sending out, then maybe they're actually coming from him --- either that he himself is thinking of settling down, or thinking about his fears of doing so. Explain to him very clearly how you feel, and ask him to be similarly frank
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