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17 Aug 2007

Bfriend on w/end away with girlfriend
I dont know what to think, i think my boyfriend is on a weekend away with another girlfriend. From last week he has been telling me that he has a conference to attend this week and they will eb busy in meetings the whole time with management.

I tried calling him since yesteday and his phone is off, I then thought let me ask the secretary where they have gone, and guess what she told me he is on leave until Monday, and she even said try him on his cell. I have never done this before whereby when he tells me something then I check on him.

I am so hurt I even regret why I phoned his office, phone. I do not know how I feel, I am numb We have such a good, loving, open relationship. I am not sure that I want to ask him about this and also, actually I think I am scared that this might be the beginning of issues(that I do not like in a relationship), I believe we trust each other but now I am questioning the trust from my side for him

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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Well, apparently the relationship may be good, loving and open from your side, but at least less open on his. An interesting array of responses from other readers so far. Do you really have any option but to ask him about this ? You have strong reasons for suspicion, and you aren't likel to forget about this. Isn't it better to raise it calmly than to wait for it to slip out in an argument some time ? Either this looks suspicious but has an innocent explanation, or he is cheating on you and lying about it. Don't you need to know which it is ? Won't you otherwise becaome unavoidably more suspicious and worried whenever he's not around ?
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