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03 Apr 2006

Blast from the past!
Hi there hope there would eb someone to advise me. Last week out of the blue one of my high school girlfriends contacted me. We haven't seen each other in like 10 years or so. She got my e-mail address from a friend and she even sent me photo's of her. Must say she's still as attractive as always. Well she's involved with someone and so am I. Question is she now wants us to be involved again. What should I tell her? I don't want to get myself involved in something complicated and I don't want to jeoperdise my relationship.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

If she's involved with someone, and knows that you are involved with someone else, why does she want you to betray your gf and her bf, and become involved with her ? Doesn't that suggest that even if she LOOKS attractive, she's not a nice person at all ? And by being so ready to betray them now, you already know she'll be just as ready to betray you ? Why not just politely say " NO thanks!" I'm already happily involved with someone else --- nice to hear from you. "
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