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07 Aug 2007

Boyfriend and Ex
I have been dating my bf for 4 years. He had a gf at school that left for overseas studies, so they never really broke up.. but he didnt wait for her either since he started going out wit me.. But in the beginning of our relationship he used to avoid mentioning me when she called and emailed him.. and once I snooped ok and read an email where she asked him if he cares bout me.. By that time we were very in love etc.. So I didnt understand why he made us out to be so little .. So anyway his ex is back and she has been calling and smsing him.. She knows about me. I just get so upset about the whole situation but when I say anything he says I dont trust him.. Thats his excuse for everything.. And he says he is not gonna be rude to her or ignore her completely since they were "friends"... Am I too insecure? Am I too jealous? Its just that they never actually broke up.. Its not like he left her becoz she was horrible..
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Well, if he was still in regular contact with her, it sounds awfully as though he was two-timing both of you. Why should he expect you to trust him, under these circumstances ?
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