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13 Nov 2006

brake up....
Please can anyone tell me how to get over a brake up......
It did not come from my side at all - he decided to brake up with me. I love him soo much and wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. THe one day he even told me i was the only person for him and that he will one day ask me to marry him, and another thing he told me was that no matter what.... he would never leave me. Then a week ago he brakes up with me saying that i am too needy, clingy and jealous and i am stopping him from growing.

I agree i was very jealous but there were def things he did that would bring it on - please tell me if i am over reacting....

- We would go out and if he saw someone he knew he would compleatly forget about me and socialize with that person - leaving me out totally....

- He would not notice when girls were flirting with him right in front of me and would be very friendly to them - there for making me feel like a compleat idiot and very insecure

- He got very close to one girl at work that really put me under a great deal of pain.... They went on a work holiday together with his work collegues and this is when i think they got close......

The one morning he stayed over at me and he got a call from this thing asking for a lift to work as her car was still at the function that they were both at the night b4, (because she was too drunk to drive). And because he always trys to please other people he went and picked her up at her house and took her to work and then another incadent with this same girl..... she was promoting at some place and did not know anyone so she asked my BF to go with to keep her company and he did - but he forgot totally about our plans as i had asked if we could go to the movies the night b4 and he said yes - it just made me feel very hurt that he would want to please her but then not care how i felt and that he just brushed of our plans for her.....

Was i HONESTLY over reacting by getting clingy and jealous?
Need honest answers please. I am hurting soo much right now and missing him too much...... it feels like i will never get over this - i just feel like ending things......
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01 Jan 0001

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