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22 Dec 2004

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My ex left to go on holiday on the 10th and said that he doesnt mind giving me another chance, but he needs to decide what he wants. He will chat to me soon. I have realised that I made mistakes in the relationship and told him this. He also made mistakes, but doesnt seem to want to admit to that. I feel that I am the whole who ruined the whole thing. I really miss him and would like him to give me a 2nd chance. We were both terribly upset about the whole break up. What I cant understand is, that if we are both so upset about ending it, why shouldn't we give it another chance?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Nobody ever yet managed to have a relationship in which BOTH halves didn't manage to make some mistakes. Why not make the "second chance" idea depend on getting you both into some relationship counselling, to sort things out, to benefit either this relationship or your next ones ?
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