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07 Dec 2004

Breaking up after 4 years
What advice can you give for the following case?

Boy has grown out of a relationship and does not want to get married becuase he feels he needs more from a relationship than what the current relationship offers especially marriage. Girl does not understand this as a good reason and wants to work things out. What do you do when the boy has already made up his mind?

Girl has low self esteem and slightly suicidal and needs the relationship a lot. How do you handle this?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Girl urgently needs direct personal counselling, to work on her self-respect and self-esteem. If he has made up his mind, THAT relationship is over, but you dont need to feel so desperate, as once you have sorted out your own problems, you will be able to get a better relationship.
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