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30 Mar 2007

CAN OF WORMS!!!
Wow did my post (2000) open a can of worms or what!
Some people were nasy to CS MOM and Flash posted a very nasty reply to me, but thats ok he/she must be in some kind of pain of their own to be so unkind.
To set the record straight. MY CHILDREN ARE NOT PPERFECT, but they do have many great qualitites that endear people to them. Sadly my step children lack these qualitites. However, even though my step daughter is very unkind to her dad and selfish, with loads of love and guidance I know that it is not too late for her to learn these things. I am very very fond of her and want her to be a sucess in life, she has so much going for her. All i was asking was how could I ease my husband's sadness.
BY THE WAY FLASH - I AM A GREAT STEP MOM!!!! I took this child in after her mother told us to fetch her and take her away, I then gave up work to be with both my daughter and my step daughter and even though we are on the bones of our arse a lot of the time, we have provided a loving home for them, with a mom and a dad and everything they need. I will do anything to make all my step children's lives better as they have been through hell. All i struggle to do sometimes is find the way to reach them. This is my philosophy - KILL IT WITH KINDNESS!! Guess I answered my own post now!
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

The authors of ALL the unkin responses should be thoroughly ashamed of themselves. Whatever their own experiences of step-parenting might have been, that;s a different topic, and is not about you, or me, or CP Mom or anyone else who responded sincerely --- we may not always be right but at least we try to be sincere.
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