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05 Jul 2005

Cannot forgive and forget easily
I have been with my bf for 3 years and I have just found out that he has been seeing this woman for the past 2 months. He said he loves me and will tell the other woman that it is over. I said to him for me to forgive and forget the whole thing, I have to be there when he tells the other woman that it is over. Am I being impossible or am I doing the right thing? Because I don' t trust him and I think he will not end it with the other woman if I let him do it on his own...Please help.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

if he loved you so much, why did he start up that other relationship in the first place ? it's a reasonable suggestion that you want to see him tell the other woman that it is over, though he's unlikely to accept that suggestion. Better still, get him to agree to work with you in marriage counselling, to see i this relationshp can be healed properly, or not
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