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20 Dec 2004

Chat: When do you know?
How do you know when a relationship is going to work out or not. I mean, how do you know if you should carry on or not.

I've been seeing this girl now for about 3 weeks and things are going well, we haven't had any fights or anything like that, there is a spark between us, have loads to talk about and are comfortable with one another. Trouble is I don't see myself falling in love with her, there's just none of 'those' feelings from my side, which is very unfortunate because I really like her and am looking to get into a serious committed relationship.

What would be the best thing to do now, break it off? Wait awhile and see if these 'feelings' develop? I don't want to get into a situation where she tells me she loves me one day and I can't reciprocate, it's not fair on her, anyone else been in this type of situation before?
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