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10 Jan 2005

cheated.
Myboyfriend is having an affair and we don't spend much time together anymore. i want to suprise him this weekend my visiting hime without telling him but geuss what i was the one who was suprised. i did not see the other girl as i was inside his mothers home and heared from her sister that ther is another girl in his room.

waht he did is that he come in the house to talk with me and arranged with his bother to take the girl out of his room to the nearby taxi rank so that she can get transport to get home.

til now i have not confronted him about this as i dont know what to do. whether to ask him about it of not.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

lindi, why on earth would you want to continue to waste yourself on a man who doesn't deserve you and who can't love you ( or he wouldn't behave like this ) --- and if his family is helping him to cheat on you, you don't want to trust them any more, either. Why wouldn't you dump him, and look for a guy who actually cares for you ( and not others as well ) and who would treat you better ?
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