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11 Apr 2006

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I feel so guilty I was involved with this guy Z for 3 years and he cheated on me then I met B who is a total sweetheart I even met his family where as Z never told his parents about me and after he cheated he totally changed and is totally committed to me and wants us to stay together etc but the way he hurt me is unbelievable the problem is that I think I still love him and I feel bad about leaving him cause he is going through a bad time he lost his job etc. Please tell me why I feel so bad cause B is really so sweet and is totally in love with me
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Hi cazzz, Isn't there something very fishy about a guy like Z, who never wanted you to meet his family ? That's not a sign of someone who is proud of the relationship or who intends to continue with it any longer than it happens to suit him. Your sympathy wih him having lost his job is understandable and commendable but Don't stay with him just for that reason. If you think there could be a reasonable future for the pair of you, get the pair of you into relatonship counselling to explore this possibility. What makes you think you ( and even Z ) would be happier if you stayed with him rather than moving on with your life, with B ?
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