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02 Dec 2005

Cheating fiance
I have been wth my fiance for the past 3yrs. We r to get married soon, date hasnt been set but traditional stuff has been done. We have a son 6months old. He's a very good provider, i love him and i couldnt have asked for anyone..............

Problem, he's having an affair and when i contronted him he denied it saying they r just friends. He deletes his sent items, dialled numbers and his phone never leaves his sight. if he's got nothing to hide why is he doing this.

I love him and im sure we can work this out bt he wont talk to me. its been a wk now since i confronted him and he's not talking to me. he knws how it breaks me when he does that.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Actually, if he's your fiancee, due to marry you, you have a son together and the traditional stuff is already done --- he knows he has no business having an affair --- or even having a close friendship with another woman that he feels he needs to keep hidden. Could someone older in your family or his, talk to him and persuade him to stop being childish and talk with you about this --- even see a marriage counsellor if needed
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