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18 Jul 2005

Cheating Husband
In April 2004, I heard a message come thru on hubbies phone at around 11pm, curious at the fact that he would receive something that late, I checked and found that it was some woman, who had sent him a message saying that there was "no us". On questioning him, he said that he had taken a liking to the woman and thought that he should make his move, and that she was not interested. It was a difficut time as we had been married for 16years at the time. Time passed and once more there was a meesage from her on his phone, this time I visited her and her husband at their home at midnight, as this was the time that I found out about the calls. On visiting them, she sat next to him and to cut a long story short, I left there being the liar. Six weeks ago, there was another message, this time, with a full declaration of love from both parties. I have tried to remain sane, often having pity parties and anger tantrums, but mostly the hurt and injury within me will not go away. He says that this time, he has made it clear to her that there will be no relationship and that he needs to preserve his family life, or what is left of it. Please help me overcome this heaviness within me, the ball of pain, that refuses to go away, even at the best of times.
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