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19 Jul 2006

Cheating Husband...what do I do??
I am 27yrs of age and just been married 6months.We've been together for 8years now. He has 2 lovely boys whom I love and they actually adore me. Their mother passed away 2months ago and they live with their granny.That's what family wants - we are looking after them fully! I just found out that my husband is cheating.I got a job away from home and he is a trucker (long distance driver).I dont know what to say/do!! Im stuck.When I asked about it he laughs...which makes me feel like a fool. I love him I know but I know that seen that he has started with this...he will most probably do it again.What should I do...I know there is counselling that we must consider - but I know now...he will tell me he will just change and need no ones help. Im stuck....I have a one year old daughter to worry about!!! Please help...
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01 Jan 0001

Laughing about it on his side is foolish and cruel. If the family has such strong interests in your relationship, why not discuss it with them ? He surely wouldn't dare to laugh at them, too ? Buzz is right --- if there's proof, move to an ultimatum. And have STD tests --- the HIV rates among long-distance drivers is terrifying--- and insist on using condoms if you have sex with him until his status is established to be safe.
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