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26 Feb 2004

Cheating or not
A question, what are the tell tale signs of your partner cheating on u? Lets c, we have been arguing plenty lately and over stupid things, which he starts. He all of a sudden says he doesnt trust me (he has no reason 2 think this at all).He compares me to his ex who is an alcoholic, I dont drink.
Like I say stupid things and I'm always to blame even if he's started the argument. What worries me, ever since I cleared his financial debt and cleared his name, putting me in a financial rutt he has become like this????????Nasty.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Leo,
Sadly, I'm inclined to agree with Soul. This doesn't sound like anything to do with cheating in the way you may think, but more about using. Having enjoyed the pleasures of having had you pay off his debt, maybe he's picking at little things to try to build up an excuse for leaving, and to pretend that he doesn't owe you such a lot ?
Why not get a good legal opinion about the debt, and his need to pay you back ? Don't give him the excuse to back out of his large debts to you --- ask for his plan to pay back what he owes you. How he responds to that will tell you whether he is sincere, or just a slimy user who needs to be made to pay back his debts.
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