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27 Feb 2004

Cheating or not
Soul,RC,Cyber,Lil ol, Juz, thanks 4 all the advise. Money money money, the root of all evil...Last night I did try and talk 2 him infact about the money situation but as usual he turned it inot an argument and I looked like the doff 1 not knowing why we had to fight about it.So Tinkles here got 2 work and I withdrew from all of the accounts I was helping him sort out. I've had 1 company call me already and I've told them I have nothing 2 do with his accounts anymore, "plse contact him directly". Can u believe I have enough 2 pay my own debt this month. As from 2day I will not pay 1cent towards him, pay off my own.Yikes lets c what the weekend holds!!!!!!
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01 Jan 0001

Sounds like an awfully good idea. If he can't be bothered to be appreciative for help received, there's no need for him to receive it. Certainly, he must not be allowed to take you and your financial help for granted.
And if he gets cross about this, say "Gee, and here I was thinking you loved me for myself, not for my money !" And add --- that you have no alternative but to concentrate now on sorting out your own financial problems which have arisen from your pouring too much moeny into sorting out his.
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