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03 Mar 2004

Cheating Wife?
Please can someone give me constructive advice on how to identify when your wife is having an affair? I am not sure whether I am just being jealous or over-protective, but I know that if I am being over-protective or jealous, I need to stop it right away, but I need to first satisfy my own mind that I am not imagining things. Please help - Constructive advice only!
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Aware,
There's no special trick to it, oher than hiring a costly private detective. Many totally inocent people look very guilty, and many deeply guilty people are skilled at looking wholly innocent.
I understand how you can interpret the clues you describe in such a way as to feel suspicious, but I agree totally with volcano --- I guess those behaviours would match my performance too, and I'm not having an affair with anyone.
Above all, here's just no substitute to talking together about this. Gently, gradually, tactfully, raising your concerns, after asking her about some of these things you've noticed.
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