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09 Dec 2005

Cofused, need some insight cont...
Making a new post cause there's something I want to add:

Thanks for the advice so far guys.
Delene, you see, my predicament is that I snooped and there is absolutely no way im going to admit this to him. I need him to know that I know somehow. I cannot just break up with him without him knowing that he made a fool of me and got away with it. This woman even knows my name (i took it out of this post, she doesnt refer to me as gf, but by my name!) I want to see what she looks like, I want her to see what I look like. They will not be alone in the dinner, but its a crowd going... If he doesnt invite me, maybe I should book at the same restaurant (she mentioned which restaurant in the conversation as well...) with one of my guy friends...
Damn, im hurting so bad.

Maybe I should just email her and let her know that he is now avaibable??
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

What other way could you possible have founf out about any of this, othern than by snooping ? You don't necessarily need to explain how you know there is something going on, so long as you don't mention things that could ONLY have been discovered by reading the SMS's. DOn't do anything that would humiliate you --- and surely he is revealing himself to be someone you don't need in your life, and which maybe the opther woman deserves ? And why think of communicating with her at all ?
I'm still puzzled by the number of unfaithful people who keep copies of their sneaky emails and SMSs, rather like trophies.
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