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03 Apr 2007

Confused???
My bf and I had many problems in our relationship and tried to sort them out, which we did. However there are still things that I wish that he would do. On average we can be considered an OK couple. At the same time there is a colleague at work that has made his intentions very clear and told me that if my bf slips up he will grab me with two hands. He has asked me to go with him to the movies etc. which I always decline. Now I have asked my bf to take me to the movies for a long time and he doesnt want to because he would rather stay at home, many times I would go myself. At the moment my bf and I are arguing and suddenly I'm thinking to go out with this guy at work. I really dont want to do this because I would consider it cheating. But how else can I show my bf that this is what I would like because talking doesnt help.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

I'm sure there are still things you wish he would do --- and there are probably still a few things he might wish that you would do. This is where the referee / balancing function of a relatiopnship counsellor can help to ensure that the sorting out process is done even more efficiently. Why not work together with such a coach, and finish working things out ? And take heed of the warnings other readers have offered here !
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