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19 Oct 2009

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I am going out with a widower and I am a widow, both with grown up children out of the house. We have a wonderful relationship, but all of a sudden he told me, that we should not have sex anymore, because he feels it should only be practice inside a marraige, and it is sin to have sex, but we can live and sleep together. He loves me he says, but can' t marry me, because he does not have enough money or security to support me.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

I guess this just needs further discussion between you to sort out. Your generation ( and his ) was more concerned about such issues than today's youngsters. If you are living together, or at least spending extended time together, maybe the issue of supporting you might not be as important to you as it is to him ?
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