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30 Nov 2005

Confused & Feel disrespected
I feel my husband is slowly killing our marriage. After work on a week day, he comes home and sleeps or watches TV. Nothing is done in the house or the garden. I come home and cook, clean etc. On a weekend he goes drinking with his buddies to gigs and only comes home at sunrise. I hardly ever go with, because I find it pointless socialising with a bunch of drunk morons who do not know when to stop. Then next day he will spend sleeping the entire day away, and only wakes up when its time to go on the next jol. I think I have been very fair letting him go out with his friends. I have asked him many times to not drink and drive and please to come home at a reasonable hour. We do love each other and have a wonderful son, but it seems that he does not repect me. If I fight with him he rebels even more. So I have resorted to the silent treatment. I am miserable, and do not know what to do.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

A comon situation, and Marriage Counselling is the most probable solution, if indeed one can be found.
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