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10 Jan 2005

Confused HIV+baby
Hi Im 24 and just found out that my boyfriend of 3yrs is HIV+ and wants me to go and test myself as we want to have a baby,but Im scared that things wil change between us but I need to know so that I dont affect my baby.My boyfriend is so optimistic about everything and he's not stressed about his status he has accepted. I haven't accepted I still want him to go somewhere and do another test.At the moment he's on medication for TB and has to take the full treatment for 6 months.Should I wait until he finishes his treatment before thinking about the baby or should I found out about my status.At the moment things nothing has changed we adore each other more than before. Im so confused and love him unconditionally.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Yes, you certainly do need and deserve testing and counselling on this issue. Good advice from Liza and Inc. And, as they say, check on TB too, as he has it. he child could be at risk for both HIV and TB, so it would at least be worth waiting till his TB treatment is completed and he's passed as clear in that regard. That doesn't change the need for you to check your status asap.
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