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07 Dec 2005

confused - need some insight please (FIO??, anybody)
Okay, I snooped (bad, I know) and this is what I found... What the hell does it mean? She is obviously flirting with my boyfriend and theres not much I can do about her behaviour. But are his responses cause for concern or is it harmless? Telling him I snooped through his email is not an option, I will rather just break up with him...
By the way, we were both invited to the xmas party he is referring to, but I couldnt make it due to other commitments, so he went alone.

*Her*: Hello u, Haven't heard back from you. Hope I didn't offend you yesterday in the joking around about the window cleaning thing in your birthday suite?
*Him* Heya, I did reply in a very forward way as well and I didn't get a response from you, so I thought that you were offended. Thanks a mill back for the party on Saturday. I had fun. Maybe we should take the washing of the windows to a more private arena...... Have a great evening
*Her*: Morning, Very relieved that no offence was taken! Why don't you re-send me that message I never received, so I have the opportunity to reply? I'm a little nervous! How big does this washing get, that we need an "arena?" :o)
*Him: Morning back, Its really not the size of the ship that counts, but more the motion of the ocean, hey? True or not?
*Her: "Motion of the ocean" hey! I wouldn't know, can't you tell that I'm a very innocent and totally naive young girl?
*Him*: Do you need reminding????
*Her*: Are you offering?????

I trust he didnt do anything with her physically (he's a bad liar and I wouldve told something is up), maybe they are really just joking around...
Help, what must I make of this, what must I do now, just let it slide??
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01 Jan 0001

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