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30 Jul 2010

CONFUSED,LONELY
I HAVE BEEN DATING MY BOYFRIEND FOR 2 YEARS NOW BUT OF LATE I FEEL WITHDRAWN TOWARDS HIM AND LONELY AS WELL.HE DOESNT WANT TO GO OUT ALWAYS SAYING HE IS BUSY.AND WHEN HE IS BUSY ITS ALWAYS ABOUT HIS SISTER WHO BY THE WAY IS MARRIED WITH THE HUSBAND LIVING IN THE U.S. SHE IS THE ONLY SISTER AND MOST TIMES HE IS ALWAYS BUSY DOING SOMETHING FOR HER.IT MAKES ME FEEL LEFT OUT OF HIS LIFE.PLS HELP ME UNDERSTAND
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Are you saying you feel lonely while you are with him ? Or that you now miss him more than usual when you are apart ? If he were busy with his work, that might be easier to understand. But I find just lately there seem to be so many questions like this, where a man is pre-occupied with his sister(s) and ignores his wife or current gf.
Is the sister's husband in the U.S. for long ? If so, he should make better arrangements, perhaps for herm to join him. Talk about this in a calm way wih him - is she really so helpless as to need so much of his time ? So she is his only sister - is he her only brother, or are there others in the family who can share some of the burden of looking after her ?
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