Please help, this is driving me insane. I never have any money, if I want something I have to ask like a child, and then still have to explain what I need it for. Even if it's only R 5.00. I use to be so independant before our marriage, but slowly but surely he has taken control of everything. I have spoken to him about this on numerous occasions, but he insists that he handles the budget and that I am spendthrift. He gets very annoyed when I even raise the subject. I earn a good salary that I work very hard for, but I don't see it at all. He doesn't show his feelings very often (not affectionate) but will show it in other ways. Sometimes he will surprise me with small gifts, but I can't buy myself something (not even a magazine) then I get the look. Everything is on his terms only. On the other hand he is a good father, provider, lover and husband. Sorry, if I don't make any sense, there is so much to ask and so little time.

Any suggestions ?