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24 Jul 2008

curly hair
hi doc i have a weird problem. im 21 years old and have long black / brown curly hair because my mums coloured but my dads indian.problem is my boyfriend is obsessed with my hair his indian by the way and its driving me crazy he kisses my head more then my lips and he always touching my hair and refuses for me to cut it or tie it up or even straighten it. i know this is weird but its becoming an issue.please try to help me
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

This sounds like what is called a Fetish, which is when someone becomes sexually obsessed with a PART of a person rather than with the whole person. Some folks have a fetish for shoes, or feet, or other objects. Its less than a full human relationship. As just part of an otherwise loving relationship its usually fine, but the more exclusive it becomes, the more it damages the prospects for a long-lasting and mutually enjoyable relationship between two entire people. For him to have become so possessive and controlling about your hair, suggests his primary relationship may be with your hair, more than with you yourself. Relationship counselling might help, if he were willing to take part in it sincerely.
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