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23 Jan 2004

Date lots of men at the same time
i have been dating lots of men at the same time since i started dating, never had one boyfriend. But i always use a condom and i dont sleep with all of them.

No sure it i have a problem or what. I have a boyfriend which i love very much and i know he love me too. The thing is he does not have a car and he is a bit stingy when it comes to poping up money, not that he doesn't give money but not all the times only few times.

I just cant keep one boyfriend at a time, the is this other one he drives this nice Merc and lives in a town house, i've only been seeing him for like 1 month, i spend the whole weekend at his place, it wasn't so nice since we hardly talk. He has never told me he loves me or anything but he is not that bad.

The is this other one, i met him at the gym he is good looking with a fine body to match, we have only kissed nothing else, and it seems that i never have time for him, he tells me he loves me, i enjoy his company, but i seem never to have time for him.

My friends always tells me that i date lots of guys at the same time because i am greedy and i want a perfect man, i want to combine all the men and make myself one men. Hansom, rich and loving.

Do u guys think i am like that
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

I think many would indeed agree with that, Tracy. Are you in love or for hire ?
You make yourself sound ( and perhaps look, to others ) really shallow, maybe more in love with the townhouse and the Merc than the man. Nothing you say sounds like you really know what love is. You enjoy a man who's pretty, and one who's rich, and one who's sexually skilled. I don't understand why you seem to be rejecting a perfecly nice guy who loves you, because he doesn't have a car and doesn't give you money ?
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