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29 Jun 2005

desperate
hello CS i wonder if you can help me, what is the defintion of cheating? The reason why i am asking is my husband has been in contact with one of his old girlfriends and they are very good friends, she still has feelings for him but she does not care to meet me and only wants to speak to him when i am not around, further my husband has told her that he loves me and he is not interested in cheating on me as i make him very happy. he realy means the world to me, now she wants to meet him for lunch and i am not alowed to go with. should i let him go and just trust him though it hurts me letting him go or what should i do, what advice can you give me?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Check out the section of Health 24 we have been preparing to accompany the awful Sex Talk TV series, as we have a whole section there about cheating. It is possible that your husband wants to maintain a friendhsip but not a cheating relationship with this woman, but she is surely not entitled to insist on secrecy and exclusivity. I would encourage him to tell her that he will NEVER meet her alone for lunch, but that she's welcome to have lunch with him AND YOU, as, if this is a healthy friendship between them, he'd want her to meet you and vice versa. If its an innocent friendship, there is no reason for you not to join them for lunch
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