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05 Mar 2004

DIVORCE
I've been married only 1 year, 2 days after the wedding we had our fist major fight, it also got physical, I'm from a very well educated family, no one in our family is fighters, I never thought that I'll be in a marriage where we argue all the time, its agains my biblical believe to get divorce, but HELP, should I get a divorce or not, I don't know what to do!!
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Dear Blondie,
Wouldn't it be both wise, and consistent with your beliefs, to firstly become involved, with your husband, in proper marriage counselling, to try to sort out why things are unexpectedly difficult, and to see if they can't be remedied ?
Even where divorce is not contrary to someone's beliefs, I always advise that they first try some serious work together in counselling, to solve all that they are able to solve, rather than giving up in frustration, early on.
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