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14 Jul 2006

Dnt knw wat to do
im a 16 year old girl, a while ago i dated this guy for abt a month (he's 18) because we could hardly ever see each other. even tho we broke up, we still carried on being really good friends and talked all the time. We both get really confused sometimes cause we still like each other alot. we both admit openly to every1 that we like each other, but we cant seem to figure out how to move on... getting back together is an option, but we afraid the same thing will happen again. This whole thing is affecting our other relationships, and we always end up hurting each other. we are all out of ideas, and really need to figure somthing out because this is starting to affect us both badly.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

This is really how many relationships go when one is 16, and even at 18. Relationships are a skill, like riding a bicycle, and most of us are wobbly when we start off. Do you both have to be focussed on this single relationship, rather than on being friends who have other relationships, too ?
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