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12 Jul 2005

does she hate me?
My girlfriend is not into having sex and is also not very keen on affection but i am, we constantly have fights because i want to fool around and she is not interested, i would understand if it were for a few days but if we do not touch each other for months then she does not care. please tell me why she would be like this, and what can i do to make her physically interested in me?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

If she's not into having pre-marital sex, what a very sensible young woman she is ! That's not a sign of hatred for you. Similarly, some of us are just ( for a variey of reasons including how we were brought up as children ) not comfortable about physically expressing affection, and need slow encouragement to become able to do so. Recognize that in most instances, this sort of response on her side is something about her, and it's probably not about you at all.
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