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12 Apr 2006

Double Standards?
Im confused , I have a boyfriend which i have been with for 7 months now. I had been in a long distance relationskip for 2 years before that, he was lovely and got me things like jewellery, rings and so on. the relationship ended very nicely. And my boyfriend was with his ex for a year - two years back. She got him clothing and other little things. We both still have our little things from the ex's.

One night i was wearing a necklace from the ex, it has my namge engraved. My boyfriend asked me were did you get that from. I told him, and he asked me why am i wearing it. As innocent as i was i just said why not its just a necklace. He had a problem with it and obvioulsy went silent.

so i removed and i now i dont wear any of the things from the ex. But he wears his! And this confuses me. Why dies he not want me to wear my stuff but i must not have a problem with him wearing his?

should i also ask him not to wear any of his stuff?
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