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21 Apr 2006

Dunno anymore!!!
Hi
Maybe someone can help, i have a partner or not really partner anymore, everything was going great untill oneday when his world imploded on him second time round for depression - he is on medication, but our relationship now is only as friends - he tells me he loves me but cannot give me what i want - he has been married before and have a little boy. He says that he feels like just hiding away for ever cause he just hurts everyone - how can i help him without hurting myself - i love him with all my heart!!! Pls help any advice will be great.

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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Sounds very much as though his depression has been inadequately or incompletely treated, maybe because the ideal reatment would combine medication with CBT-style counselling which would deal with these persistent negative thinking habits.
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