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06 Aug 2007

Emotional Cheating
CS something happened on mantalk forum that made me wonder. The visitors there shared much personal information and an anonymous poster gathered information on 2 particular married individuals. Anonymous then told them that he sent a sms to You magazine with these people's date of birth, date of marriage, informing their spoues to visit mantalk and see for themself how their spouses is cheating.

All the visitors to the forum were up in arms, screaming these individuals' innocence and none of them can see Anonymous point of view. The one married woman who acted like a cheap tart disappeared completely.

How can married people talk to strangers on a forum about masturbating, crotchless panties, orgasms etc., mail each other and meet up without their spouse's knowledge, and call it innocent?

I get what Anonymous is on about and cannot understand how 50 people on the forum cannot see that it's cheating.

What is your take on cybercheating? Is it innocent or ok?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

I tend to take a rather simple approach. If what you're doing in such communication with someone else is something you feel you must keep secret and anonymous, that's cheating.
In what you're describing, I hope YOU magazine would treat such a message with the contempt it deserves, but how foolish were the people concerned to share so much information online in any open forum ?
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