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24 Jun 2010

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Please help. My bf and I had a fight yesterday and he took everything I said wrong. He has told me it is over and I have accepted it and was sincere in telling him that I wish him all the best and that he is a great guy. I thought we could leave it in an amiable state. He has now turned nasty, so I told him that its over and lets just move on because after this, things will never be the same. But his response to me was '' great ''. I never wanted it to end!!! So, that is it. Why did it have to turn like this? I like to leave things in a civil way, not like this.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Some relationships end, for a wide variety of reasons, often good reasons ; there is no need for either party to turn nasty and make something more horrible out of it than is unavoidably so. Maybe he is much more hurt abou this than you realised ; but it's up to him to explain himself and suggest a positive response, rather than just making things more difficult.
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