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03 Dec 2004

Enlightenment pls
Hi all
Firstly my apologies for the overdose posting thing - was not stating my opinion or acting like I knew it all - just what I heard on what those type of drugs could do to you.
Well this is my thing - my partner and I were apart for nearly on year. We had been in contact often but never anything sexual - as we had made a vow of celibacy until we both knew what we wanted - well it's now obviious that we want to be together again ( Not just sexually) and as excited as I am - I have an equal amount of anxiety/fear/nervousness - i dont know, as much as I know he loves me I just feel unsure about where we're at - I mean I need 100% re assurance that this is it. In my heart I have always known that he is all I want in a man. He is still all i want, I dont want to scare him away - I just want love.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Hey, there was no problem, and is none. I suspect that a vow of celibacy until both are sure what they want would be a brilliant example for many people to follow. Ending a period of celibacy is a special thing, and maybe you need to plan a peaceful and romantic setting, a chance to talk things through ahead of time so as to settle your doubts and fears, and a pleasant time together without distractions ?
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