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28 Jul 2006

Ex girlfriend
hi

My husband's exgirlfriend whom she has a child with is making my life miserable. I have been married to my husband for four years and she has made sure our lives are a living hell. She has my phone number on which she used to call me on and swear and say all sorts of nasty things to me. Now what she does recently, is that i will get a call from a withheld number and she will have one of her friends on the line and the person will be saying a lot of negative things eg. i am you husband's girl friend or tell you husband not to forget out appointment, my name is not important, he will know who it is. etc
Thing is i cannot prove it is her doing, the only reason i say it's her is because she has done it in the past and then it was easy to know that it was her as she forgot to withold the number and we traced the call only to find that she was either using a friend phone or she was calling from a friend's office/ workplace.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Enquire at your local magistrate's court, as you could get a Court Order forbidding her, directly or indirectly, from ever contacting or harrassing you in any way. And I think you can discuss this with the police --- if they can catch her ignoring the court order, she could be in srious trouble.
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