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20 Jan 2004

FALLING FOR HIM
THERE IS THIS GUY AT WORK THAT I LIKE AND PROBABLY HE FEELS THE SAME.WE GO OUT TOGETHER FOR OUR LUNCHES.WEEKENDS WE GO OUT.WE ARE FOREVER CALLING EACH OTHER .AND IT HAS BEEN FIVE MONTHS NOW BUT LIKE WE HAVEN'T EXPRESSED HOW WE FEEL ABOUT EACH OTHER.BESIDE SENDING EACH OTHER MESSAGES THAT I LIKE YOU THEN I LIKE YOU TOO. I WILL LIKE FOR US TO HAVE A STABLE RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM WHAT MORE CAN ONE DO.BUT THEN HE TOLD ME HE HAS A ONE YEAR OLD BABY.AND THAT HE SEPARATED WITH THE MOTHER WHEN SHE WAS PREGNANT .AND WE WENT TO FETCH THE BABY FOR SHOPPING.DOES HE STILL NEED TO SORT HIMSELF OUT OR SHOULD I RUN FOR MY LIFE?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Dear NNA,
let's see what other readers have to say here. If you are to have any real relationship, you'll need to talk these things over properly, between you. You need to know what happened before -- separating from a woman who is pregnant with your child is not usually the sign of a Good Man -- what happened and how does he explain that ? What is the current situation between him and the child's mother ? And how does he reassure you that he wouldn't also walk out on you ?
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