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06 Jan 2005

falling in love all over again!!!!!1
Hallo everyone, i'm in love with a married man, but before the holidays (december)i told myself that by january now, i must depart with him, his wife does not about our love but he plans to tells his wife about us and that i will visit his home,

so now he came to my place he told me he loves more and more and that he was bored without me during the holidays, he even told me that i give it to him so good than his wife,

i really meant what i thought but now i fall in love for him all over again, mind you i'm alos married and i do not like sex with hubby unlike i like it with this man, he's sweet, gently, romantic and i can't deny that his dick is bigger than hubby, i reaaly love him.

he means a world to me.i also respect him and he gives me anything i ask but hubby will tell i don't have money so that's why i keep it hot with this man. and now we plan to go out together and spend some qaulity time where no one and i mean no one will disturb us.

if you know that cheating is good then you'll know what i mean here, we arew going to have sex until the heavens comes down, we gonna -|- each other coz we never saw each other during the hoildays an i can't wait for hat moment for us to come.

any advice give it to me i will accept, call me a whore or anything i will accept. but u might be jealous coz we are going to enjoy our sex and we are going to make each other happy, feel good and orgasm a lot and kiss each other's private parts and lick each other and do all the styles in that world.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

PLEASE check out the archives of this forum, as we've discussed this theme SO many times that I can't face climbing back into it. For a married person to have an affair, especially with another married person, is sleazy , selfish, and cruel and punishes totally innocent people. And what you're describing sounds very little different from prostitution --- the sex is good and this guy PAYS you by buying you things your poor husband can't afford to give you. Well, of course, poverty must be punished, mustn't it ? Nopbody would be calling you a whore to be rude, but to invite you to think about whether there is any real difference from what she does and wha you're doing.
YOu seem to be revelling in it, like spotty-faced teenagers who think that they invented sex, and that the mere fact that it feels good, is enough to justify anything nomatter how much it hurts other people.
Why do you feel the need to brag about what is a disgusting choice you've made in life ? What are you looking for, applause ? Or for someone to lie and say it's marvellous, just go out and have fun ?
Not one single word in your whole message says anything at all about "love", and I doubt very much whether you have any idea of what that word means. You are talking about merely sex.
And just look at your pathetic and juvenile response to people who point out how grubby you are ! What makes you think nobody else is "getting any" --- maybe they're not stealing any from someone else's spouse, but that doesn't mean they aren't getting any.
Just go away, and peddle your grubby story to people who want to hear your fantasies. We don't want to hear about it, and we don't care about someone who so very obviously is proud of caring about nobody else except herself.
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